Being a small business owner can feel lonely. Unless you have a support system, it can be difficult to share your challenges and fears with people who have never been responsible for running a company. They may not understand what you’re going through.
This is why having a network of mentors and peers is so important, especially for women business owners. That inner circle of advisors, confidants, and champions is key to figuring out how to be successful.
Having mentors and fellow business owners in your corner can make the difference between struggling and thriving.
However, finding such mentors and peers can be a challenge. A recent study by Truist found that 30% of women business owners struggle to find mentors and 35% find it difficult to network with fellow women business owners. Lack of access to business owners who have faced similar roadblocks and can help offer potential solutions or paths to success holds women back.
Fortunately, it is possible to build a support network of mentors and peers. It all starts with proactively seeking out true connections with people who understand where you are and where you want to head in your entrepreneurial journey and who are willing to provide guidance.
Why a Support Network Matters
In addition to offering ideas and solutions to common business problems, an inner circle of business owners offers several types of support:
- Expertise. Mentors can offer recommendations and advice based on their personal experiences. Those “been there, done that” experiences can save you time, money, and frustration.
- Accountability. One of the most useful aspects of having peers and mentors to turn to is the opportunity for reporting and accountability. Knowing that someone is going to check in to find out how much progress you made in reaching your goals and help you stay on track can be game-changing.
- Business opportunities. Well-connected mentors and peers are often the best sources of new business referrals and introductions to potential clients. Your connection with other businesspeople exponentially increases the number of people you are connected to. It can be extremely helpful for your business.
- Emotional support. Every business owner faces times that can be scary and frustrating, just as they can experience big wins worth celebrating. Having mentors and peers you can turn to when you need a shoulder to cry on or someone to share in your excitement is also valuable to your company.
Finding a Supportive Mentor
Although the role of a mentor is to provide feedback and encouragement, often by sharing their own experiences and lessons learned, there are good mentors and bad mentors. To avoid wasting time with a mentor who doesn’t help you progress as an entrepreneur, keep an eye out for someone who has these qualities and characteristics:
- Experience in your industry or type of business
- Similar values to your own
- Has the time available to stay in touch regularly
- Able to be candid without being harsh or hurtful
- Encouraging and invested in your success
There may be other types of experiences that you’ll want to look for that would make a mentor even more helpful to you and your particular type of business, but these are some basics.
Then, where can you come into contact with people — mentors or peers — who could check some of these boxes? Here are some potential places and communities:
- Business groups. These could include those specific to women business owners, such as the National Association of Women Business Owners (NAWBO) or Chief, for C-suite women leaders, for example.
- Online platforms. Places like LinkedIn and Instagram are two places to identify potential mentors and peers and become familiar with their companies. They may not be the best place to try to start a relationship, however.
- Facebook communities. Although social media is a great way to get connected with people and to watch what they’re doing, communities are where women can support each other. In addition to WomensNet, check out Women Helping Women Entrepreneurs, as well as groups specific to your type of business.
- Business incubators. Programs established to help women business owners succeed are another source of potential connections. The NASDAQ Entrepreneurial Center is one such place, as well as the Tory Burch Foundation and Y Combinator (which is not female-specific).
- SCORE. The SBA’s Service Corps of Retired Executives (SCORE) was established to help entrepreneurs overcome obstacles and troubleshoot issues that arise; there may be a local former executive who can offer guidance at no cost.
Building a Network
To be successful as a connector, or someone who surrounds themself with knowledgeable business owners, it’s important to approach your networking looking for ways you can support others and not just expecting others to give you, a stranger, their time and talents right off the bat.
Here are some tips for establishing and nurturing a strong network of supporters:
- Give before you ask for something. That could be an introduction, an idea, or a recent news article you thought would be useful to them. But give without an expectation of receiving anything in return.
- Be clear about what you need. When you get to the point of wanting to establish a relationship, communicate what you’re looking for. Do you want a mentor to give you feedback every few weeks, or to take your call when you have a question? Do you want fellow entrepreneurs to commiserate with and share successes? Are you creating your own mastermind group that you’d like them to join? Make sure you know what you want before asking.
- Stay in touch. Make connecting and reconnecting with your network a part of your daily or weekly schedule. Don’t ask for advice and then drop off the face of the earth for a few months, only to resurface later with another request for more help. That gets old fast. Make sure you’re offering as much support as you’re requesting.
- Consistently work to expand your network. Set a goal to increase your business network by a certain number of people each week or month, so that you’re actively adding to your circle of contacts on a regular basis.
The good news is that you don’t need a huge network to get value from being connected to others. You can create a small circle of your business besties, who are there when you face challenges and cheer you on when you get a big win, or you can focus on volume, steadily building your connections until you know everyone in your industry.
There’s no wrong way to network, unless you start by expecting others to help you because you asked. A much better and more memorable approach is to start sharing your expertise and resources to assist others. They’ll appreciate it and look for ways they can return the favor, even without you having asked.